Short story...lady goes out on a blind date with this doctor. They are having dinner. Same thing that happened to you happened to this lady...no spark. She was about to ask him to take her home just when his pager went off. It was an emergency at the hospital. He did not have time to drop her off. So she went with him to the ER. And as she watched him caring for his patients he came alive...he had confidents, he loved to save people. He was passionate and so alive and she saw this and felt a spark. How about giving this relationship more time?