I don't think that it is SI either but you are doing it for a reason. Some reasons that I can think of are 1) you don't feel you deserve good things?, 2) you are afraid of intimacy?, 3) you want to drop them before they drop you?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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