Hi Everyone,

I discovered the documentation on this site only recently, and suddenly, despite the pain it is causing to my wife, I have a sense of hope.

Whilst the evidence of my addiction is on the mild side, when compared to the literature, this has actuallly mde it more difficult to accept, and remains stubbornly unacceptable to my wife.

Whilst reading the sex addiction papers on this site and taking the quiz - getting a score of 11 - I find myself facing the fact that I have a very real problem, which may take years to recover from and I am terrified that I will not be able to keep my wife, who I love dearly, by my side.

Any of you been through this, can you offer any nuggets of hope?

BTW, I am not even slightly religious, so I will probably react badly to suggestions I should find a higher power.

AGoodMan ( I really am despite it all! )