getting back to Ranger's problems...Ranger, i think it is great that you've created a list of questions for your T. and remember, educating yourself is very empowering. if i were you, i'd not dwell upon the possibility of your marriage going south, i would concentrate on getting better. whether or not you save your marriage is not as important as your recovery. and of course i understand your pain concerning your wife, but, as you and i have talked, you cannot make her do anything right now. xoxox pat