My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. We have a 3 1/2 yr old daughter together and he is the "step father" to my 9 1/2 yr old son. We have a great relationship however there isn't much sex involved. We work opposite shifts and between kids, bills and everyday stuff sex gets pushed back. In either case just recently I found a picture of his "manhood" in his cell phone and it was sent to a girl's email. I asked him about it and who the girl was. He said this girl friend requested him on Facebook and they started chatting. They chatted just as friends but HE says SHE started flirting with him out of the blue. She said something about him not being able to "get it up" so he in turn sends her the picture. He says he knew it was wrong and that he did it because "she paid him compliments and gave him attention that I obviously was not giving him". I became very upset and demanded to know how the two of them knew each other, did they have sex, were they still chatting, where does she live, etc. He told me everything and said that he deleted her as a friend on Facebook and hasn't talked to her since he sent the picture. She lives in Rhode Island and we live in Florida so I know the two of them didn't have sex but I feel SO betrayed by him. This IS NOT how my boyfriend normally acts. He is a very loving and caring man and I know he loves me very much. He seems very genuine in his apology. I love this man very much and want so much for our relationship to work out. Can I ever fully trust him again? He even gave me the passwords to his Yahoo email account and his Facebook (not that that means anything).