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Sorry, but I don't understand. If self-injury works for certain people, & helps them, then what would be "better"?

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I don't have all the answers, but I think "better" would be to face the problem, work through the feelings, and deal with what it going on. Easier said than done, but SI is an easy way out that doesn't pay off in the long run.