Good post Dottie
There are so many people who are not prepared to have children and who do it for the wrong reasons. Please don't be another one of those people Lex.
I don't know you at all, but read through the posts you have made here lately. Do you really think now is the right time to have a child? Children need stability.
I know this probably isn't the response you were looking for, but I have to be honest. Don't have children unless you are totally prepared for it. It is expensive, and a lot of hard work. How have you prepared for this?