I hope A. didnt have a fever so that u didnt have to contact him ! Remember please, you are out of meds, and that is making you feel bad. As P. just said, he is doing this at a time that he KNOWS it will affect you. Don't let him do this to you - dont give him that power. YOU know that you are a good Mother. WE know that you are a good Mother. Probably - HE knows it - and because of that insecurity -he has to belittle you in any way that he can. I think there are a bunch of us here, who would LOVE to go with you tomorrow - and cheer you on! But, that being impossible, just remember we are all here thinking about you and KNOWING you will get thru it - FOR YOUR CHILDREN !!!!!!!!!!!

As for notifing him if she does have a fever - forget it! You have 50/50 custody - you do NOT have to "keep him in the loop" if she has a slight temp. What HE wants does not have to be catered too ! Take away some power from him, dont allow him to make you think so bad of yourself - he has done so much wrong, and it will all come out soon I am sure. YOU CAN DO THIS S. !!!!!!!!!!