yeah I don't like for them to see it all. So when he gets in one of his moods(I can usually spot a few minutes ahead) I make the kids go in their room so they don't see us fight. I started doing that a few months ago but they know it goes on still. And I'm not sure what they would do. I've thought about talking to my sister but I don't want her to know everything.
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Originally Posted by salukigirl
That is pretty much the definition of emotional abuse. The biggest thing for me would be having my children see him treat me that way. I know that you feel like you don't have anyone and that you have cut yourself off from your family but, they're still your family. You don't think that if you called them up and spilled the beans about the whole story that they would want to help you?
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