I have to get an outline ready for tomorrow.

20 minutes of what I do with my kids, the positives, who are my kids, likes and dislikes, grades, ages.

20 minutes of why I think the kids should be with me more (includes Tony bashing time) and what weaknesses of mine he will exploit.

20 minutes of what I would/do do better than Tony does/will do.

Thank you so much, everyone, for the boost, but all I can see right now is all the negatives - that I can't communicate with their father, that my daughter is undersized, that I'm struggling financially and emotionally, etc. My lawyer said I should take along pictures of me doing things with the kids. I don't have one picture of me and the kids. He said to mention things like we play board games. We do, but not very often. They're getting to the age where they'd rather hang out with friends than play Clue with mom.