Ummmmm, don't really know how to put this in words. A few months ago my dad wrote a inapporiate letter to my wife. I confronted him about it on the phone with some not so very nice words.
Since then my dad has been absent not only from my life but from his 2 grandchildren to. It's really hard when my 4 yr. old asks about grandpa.

I asked my dad why he wrote the letter, he said " I don't know". Great answer. My mom even swept it under the rug. I tried calling, and even going over to the house to see him but he won't pick up the phone. If he knows I'm coming over he'll leave before I get there. If we make amens it'll still be awkard. What should I do ?????????