Hi and Welcome.

First, if I may ask-- are you getting counseling for this addiction? or are you doing anything to help control it? Addictions are a tough thing to cope with.

Second, I feel for your wife and the pain she must be going through. I imagine that she never considered this part of the agreement when you two became married-- that must be hard for her.

And I don't believe that religion has anything to do with commitment and respect- even if I was religious.

If you really love her and care about her feelings and your marriage-- it would be good for you and her to find some kind of help- like therapy.

Good luck to you

mandy