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Old Mar 05, 2010, 01:32 PM
melinda84 melinda84 is offline
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It's all been settled now fortunately. He realized i was serious when both my Mom and I had a long talk with him telling him he needs to make arrangements to leave and soon. We wanted him to leave that night, but he wasn't able to find a cheap enough flight that quickly so I'm letting him stay in the apartment until tomorrow when his flight leaves. I have been staying at my Mom's place and he has agreed to pay me the extra money for the few days he is staying there without me. I am just really happy and relieved that i didn't have to get the landlord and the authorities involved.

He isn't regularly a violent person. I do think he has some problems he needs to work on. The fight we had just got out of hand so i'm not worried right now. In fact, i went back to the apartment to get some clothes and things and he was very polite and friendly. He has made it clear that he wants to keep things civil and still be friends, but i think i am going to need some time if i do ever consider talking to him again.

I told our counselor that he won't be coming with me to future appointments cuz we broke up and he is going back to Wyoming. I don't think she really knows what to think since she only saw us once, but i am going to an appointment myself tomorrow to talk about the break up.