Tatyana,

You are absolutely the voice of reason and it is helpful. I do realize that I need help, my marriage needs help and my son needs help. I am working on it. I am reaching out for help pretty desparately. Lucky for me, I'm getting some right here. I really appreciate your concern and warmth and willingness to share your own problems. It helps immensely to know that I'm not alone and my feelings are not totally off the mark.