((((Michelle)))) it is good that you care and she is lucky to have you as a friend, but sometimes when a person cant see their addiction it isnt until they hit rock bottom do they learn. Thye have to be willing to change thier habits, I only changed mine after hitting rock bottom. I wouldnt listen to anyone, I thought I was in control, but in truth I was a mess, then when reality harshly hit me in the face and only then did I learn that I had to change, it made no difference what anyone else said to me.