((((((Saluki))))))) how very very kind of you. I am so sorry about you brother it is at times like this he needs his family right around him. I have pretty god medical support here where I live and the city I live in is famous for its gay population so there is no shortage of information. I was just hoping to meet someone who had mental health issuues as well as hiv you see and to learn from them how they cope with a dual stigma. but thanks so much for your kindness.