Don't allow other's to put guilt upon you, don't accept it. Be thankful that God has spared us this time. Take care of your children and yourself, so that you can help some time in the future. We are a rich country and many will give more than will be spent on the victims. Quit watching so much tv and refresh yourself. Those who are not well mentally, esp those of us who have already been traumatized, cannot expect to follow along the rest of the world's ideas of help. Send good wishes to them... and good energy.