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Mar 05, 2010, 08:59 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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I agree with others...
Your husband's behavior is extremely intrusive and completely violates your right to privacy. He is using your own thoughts and feelings and attempting to manipulate you with them by saying he will use them against you if you ever get divorced.
Don't bottle up your emotions/feelings or thoughts. Here's an idea that I have used before. Get a Safe Deposit Box and keep your journal in there. You don't have to tell him that you have one and when you need to journal, you can get your journal, go sit in the park or the library, and journal away. Then when you're done, put it back in the box.
You do not have to tolerate this behavior from him. 
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