It is common at the early and yes sometimes later stage of intergration for this type of situation to occour. but seeing a T or doing communication logs with each other should help each other out. It appears at a glace that you do talk to each othe but carry out sperate live. the fact that you share the same body is not being honored or taken into acount whether the body is male of female is really not an issue but how you can live together in harmoy with out hurting each other. if this outside person is aware of what is happening maybe even have a joint talk with her. To see if there can be a compremise for what is going on in all of your lifes. safe hugs until that peace is found. IN my youth we were not so worried about these things because we (MY internal partners accepted a space of freedom for each other) What is happing to you was not an issue for me but as we aged we agree that one man was best for the whole body but that is hard to find a person that makes the whole happy. Even to accept us as we are. So if you can find someone that fits the bill be happy for each other.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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