Yesterday we were together here at our house. We were baling hay to give to daughter and son in law to feed a calf they just bought. So daughters sons were here, the oldest helping bale and the youngest, four, playing and enjoying the day. Our son and his wife and four kids came for a while also. My son abuses his eight year old daughter, and momma just sits and watches and seems to enjoy it. Daughters little four year old really surprised me yesterday while my son was going at the eight year old . He said "Leave Courtney alone, Mike, you are mean" Then, again, later on, my son was being abusive to her, and little Thad picked up a little yellow crabapple and threw it at my son, saying "Stop it Mike, you are a meanie" My son then grabbed Thad, the four year old, and smacked him pretty hard on the butt. Thad hid behind me, sobbing, and looked my son right in the eye again, and said, Mike, You are mean. Here I have been trying to talk to them about Courtney, and it comes out of the mouth of a four year old. They also abuse her mother who is living with them. They have been turned in to childrens services in Richland Col Ohio twice, and turned into Elder Abuse for abusing her mother mentally. The Apostolic church they go to comes to their rescue, and Richland County is useless. As a grandparent, it makes me sick.