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Originally Posted by Inspired Vegetable
im still at a stage of finding myself. but i miss having a girl in my life. probably best to maintain a healthy distance from this new girl; if i can help it. dont wanna be her rebound or get caught up in her lifes drama. cant stop thinking about her tho. dunno why im so attatched with so little to base those feelings on. maybe im projecting my own longing onto whoever fills that space at the moment. like i said, its been a while since i had romance in my life.
anyone had any experience with prolonged isolation and then "getting back in the game", so to speak? what about easily developing strong emotional attatchments to people fairly quickly?
one of my issues is that im a people pleaser. i thinl i put a little too much weight into how other people are feeling in correlation to my own mood or security. not the most stable arrangement, to say the least.
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Just take everything very slowly... you are very possibly projecting your longing to be close to someone.
I'm recently single after 5 years and find it hard to not get attached quickly when I go out with a guy... but by keeping my emotional distance I'm finding it easier but yes I still get lonely because of it. I don't want a rebound relationship or to be sucked into someone elses life right now - I have enough to deal with finding myself.
Focus on you and learning to please yourself (yep if you are like me it feels very selfish!) but it's a step in the right direction
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