Deli, I meant FOR ME, it's not acceptable to feel anything sexual in therapy even if it's not about my T. If my T were a man, I could rationalize that it was normal because he's a man and I'm a woman. If I were gay, I could say the same thing. But it is beyond my scope of acceptance to have this happen when I'm with a woman. I just feel shame about it. I did talk about this with my other Ts, but I still feel the shame. I know it's something to work on in therapy. I think posting here is a test to see how it will be in therapy.