dolf this is not the man for you, he is not as mature as you thought he was, he is a scared little boy running away from any responsibilty for his own actions be they good or bad. and a potential control freak in the making. nip it in the bud now and move on
this boy is an immature fool, and until he does grow up that is all he will ever be, a boy.

please dont let this make you go out and buy cats, your better than that.

hugs from across the atlantic (((((((((dolf)))))))))