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Belle1979 · Mar 07, 2010, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by LynD

So my husband just texted me asking if I stayed in tonite cause the roads are very icy here. Stupid me texted back saying yes. Then I texted asking why do you care anyway? (I haven't heard from him in over 2 weeks). The thing is when I read it was from him I got really anxious and shaky and nervous. Why? He's my husband...I don't know...that was just weird.

I know how you feel in a way.
I almost had an accident (3 months after my other half left) and the first thing that popped into my head when it happened was to text my ex - I was in a panic..
He wanted to come and pick me up.. kept ringing me to see if i was okay etc..
I told him that it would be wierd for him to pick me up - especially seeing that he left me for another woman - and that it wasn't his responsibility to look after me anymore... He replied with that he still cared alot and wanted me to be okay..

Now when I do get text messages or emails from him - my heart just about stops.. I get nervous and scared.. I can't explain the feelings but yeah it's weird.

I don't want him back and it makes me angry when he says he still cares... he has no right anymore to have any emotions about me... but he still does.

I hope that you are moving forward in your life - it does get easier but there are black and weird moments...