I care ! Men arent programmed to notice the ordinary things that women notice - for some reason, seeing a sinkful of dishes does not say to them "I need washing please" like it says to us women. Most men need to be asked to help with these things. I think if your husband would read what you wrote about today - he would be shocked at how "out of the loop" he really is ! Please talk to him, and ask him to connect with the family as easily as he connects to the Internet ! I really do think talking to him is essential - not only to get him to help you out when he is home all day, but for your self -worth, feeling like you are part of a couple, rather than alone, and so the resentment wont build up and up !

Good luck -and I am sure there are many women who feel the same way you do !