I agree with Rainy daze. There is no set time frame for healing. My first relationship break down it took me 3 years to get over him (together for 7). With my latest break-up (after 5 years together) I am doing better than I expected but it's onmly been 4 months.
The roller coaster emotional ride seems to last for a very long time but time really does heal all. It just wont feel like anything will ever be good again but I promise it does.
Start on the right track - I found that seeing a therapist and going to the doc for a check-up really put me on the road to recovery.
Plus talking, talking and talking to anyone who would listen saved me.

Soft hugs to you lifelesstraveled x