Unfortunately, it's not just guys that do this one, Dolfin....Alot of insecure folks play the "come closer, please.....that's too close" game....It truly has nothing to do w/you. It's him...and he's seeing right now just how far he can push you and still get you back....I guarantee that the next move will be a lovely and romantic attempt to "reconnect".....(and if you do, you'll probably get the unexplained and unexpected "disconnect" again).....He may carry himself in a mature way...but he isn't yet mature....hang in there....love Grace