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this may sound a little cruel.
ask your son how he feels about filing notice of separation.
may bring everything out into the open. and maybe save him years of tolerating this kind of behavior.
what i am trying to say is, for dil to involve both sides of the family [she married your son,not you or her mother]. i would guess that involvement of an ear she can get the response she is seeking is what will always be the case.
so far her mother thinks "giving the dog back" will solve the issue. your son is leaning that way.
personally i wouldn't let dil raise a housefly. has too much selfishness going on. already proved that by leaving the dog with you and her business to run, just to expect "ok i back now and i want".
peeling this band-aid off slowly will only prolong all your all's anguish.
imo. see if separation papers will find the truth.
p.s.glad you were able to house train your dog!
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