You should relax about any weirdness in dreams. You can't possibly help what you dream about. And you're dreaming what you have to dream at any given time. The mind is always right! So just trust it
Everything in dreams is disguised, so when you dream about sex, you're also dreaming about other things. I've often dreamed about sex with people who were inappropriate for me in real life. Often, for me, dreaming about sex with someone can mean that I'm trying to communicate with them, to achieve intimacy (as wepow said), to bridge distance, etc. I've had dreams where I was having sex with my parents. My relationship with them was pretty terrible, and I believed those images evinced a kind of crazy desire in me to reach them in a fundamental way...
Sex can also have echoes of life-giving energy, etc. Just play with it and see what you come up with, in relation to what you're consciously aware of in your feelings toward your T. I would mention this dream to her, also, BTW!
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Originally Posted by moonrise
I had a dream last night where I (gulp) had sex with my T. I'm not romantically attracted to her, I'm straight, and....ugh. She's psychodynamic, and we talk a lot about dreams. What could this possibly mean? And how the heck do I tell her? I'm embarassed, because I don't think of her like that. I also dreamed I was being forced to canibalize, and that I killed my brother. It was a crazy night. Any thoughts? I'd love to find out what it means, but I have NO thoughts on how to bring it up. Oh, and I see her tomorrow.
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