very well said Deb.....have to agree with Deb and she said it perfectly.
really think over and answer honesty the things she brought up.
and Deb.....I feel for you in your relationship...you msut really love him alot to be able to recognize the issues and deal with them without it bringing you down emotionally. Im big on touch too...and almost take it as rejection if I dont get it.
Serenity