It is good to hear that you and your husband are communicating. I think that is really important even if it takes time to come to agreement. I am glad to hear you are feeling better. Hopefully your daughter will come around to know it is love not just a firm hand for the sake of controlling her. Meanwhile don't let it get to you. Tomorrow it will be something else. lol. Just when you have one thing figured out bamb they hit you with something new. Crazy making!! Take care.