CJ, please keep making refferals to the right sources. Even if you went to Child protective services and explained what you saw. They would tend to take you seriously. As for the elder-abuse. Many elders don't tell for the same reasons we never told. Fear of pay back, rejection, institutionalization. You need to keep reporting that as well. It might take many visits from a worker before she lightens up enough to admit it. I really wish you luck and know my heart is with you and you are doing the right things. We must act to protect those who can't speak for themselves. It bears witness to the crimes done against us. May it never happen again. Poor little girl. What did your daughter do when her son was assaulted? She can even press charges. I personally like the knee up position myself in this case. Makes me ill as well.

I also wondered if you have told your son he needs counseling? Does he listen?