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Old Mar 09, 2010, 12:35 AM
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(((((Salukigirl)))))

Sometimes opposites attract and you can both balance each other out. Being able to notice these differences in who you both are puts you at an advantage for the times when finances do become a sticky issue for the both of you...and they will. They do for everyone.

Just remember that you help keep him out of the clouds and he helps keep you floating just above the Earth. If you can manage to communicate effectively with each other during the stressful financial times, as opposed to treating each other like crap or just throwing your hands up and going to bed angry, I think you both could bring out the best in each other. If not though, you may be in for a bumpy ride.

Communicate...compromise, yet stand your ground. Know when and how to pick your battles. Don't get caught up in trivial issues. Just when you think you can't go any further...take one more step...forward.
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