((((((((((((Googley))))))))))))))

I have had some major phone difficulties with my T too, and it took a long time to figure out exactly what I can ask for/what I can expect in response. It's hard.

Can you tell her exactly what you said in your post here? Even though it feels awful sometimes, the only way to really figure this stuff out is talking, taking, talking, talking.

We're here, googley. You're not alone