I'm sorry he is putting you through all of this. I would definetly talk to your landlord and call the police. If he's not on the lease he doesn't have any rights being there after you've asked him to leave. It just sounds like he is gonna stay around as long as he can to make you as miserable as possible. My husband is the same way. If you ever wanna talk or ever need anything feel free to pm me. I wish the best of luck for you. And just remember we are all here for you hun!