Is she trying to maybe give you a push in some direction she believes you want to go in but dont say so? Im just grasping here...maybe she wants YOU to ask yourself what are my ulimate goals?

I'll tell you, I dont think in therapy I ever outlined specific goals. I may have said generally that I wanted to work on my marriage, on trauma, on feelings I have abour myself. Is there maybe a reason you can come up with that she would want to put the ball in your court? I think if my T said that to me Id feel really overwhelmed tothe point where I would feel like I was being given a task I cannot complete and so she wants to get rid of me that way!

Maybe you can ask her? What is she trying to do with you? SOmething like that?

I think Id would definitely feel the same way as you. Id feel like crying and like even my T isnt on my side Im sorry that this is so hard. Can I give you a million hugs????