Go back to your doctor and tell him you want to know why you're having incontinance problems and how to fix it. Sometimes women after having children have problems with incontinance. It can also happen as people age. Very often it can be surgically repaired, so you don't have to wear adult diapers anymore. I'm sure that would make you feel better. If I don't feel I'm getting a good answer from my doctor, I keep asking more questions or find another doctor. I think you need to see a urologist for this problem. I hope you find a good solution and feel better.