Sweetheart, you sound to me like a very sensitive boy. You obviously like this girl very much. And no I do not think you sould be angry with her. She is right.

It sounds to me like there may be an issue with boundaries for you. Is your home environment very strict? or vert lenient? Are your parents together? whats their relationship like?

If you do not like answering this here think about it and how it affects you and speak to the counsellor about it.

I hope you see a T soon xxxx