I don't have to tell you because you already know....we don't do things for others in order to get a satisfactory return....Your boyfriend, on the other hand, is getting exactly the reaction he is looking for when he praises the "new woman" in the house....My advice?...Give him exactly what he isn't expecting.......your response...."Gosh, she is incredible...I'm sure glad that I don't have those duties anymore....it's alot of work!"