This post is not getting at anyone nor is it directed at any particular member. It's just an idea.
I wondered if we could have a new rule brought in that stops members that leave, then coming back and then leaving again. I do not feel this is a good pattern to get into. I had a thought that maybe admin could bring in a rule that states, 'Once a member leaves they will be allowed back again once only. If a member decides they wish to leave again then they must understand they will not be allowed back as it does cause some upset amongst members of the community.'
Like I said, this is not directed at anyone in particular and I am glad for those members that do come back, just don't want to see them go again...