Pain they aren't trying to worry her, it is jsut medical conditions many women have had related to sex, and they are things to be looked into, also I don't think anyone knew her age, she didn't mention it.

A woman's body can be mature enough for sex by 15, mine was, but it doesn't mean I was ready to be sexually active, or that any female at the age of 15 is ready to be. Many people forget sex is not just a physical thing, but an emotional one as well, and there can be serious conscuenses, such as pregnecay and STD's. One should be smart and safe when being sexually active, and one should also be sure they are ready to handle the emotional aspect as well.

it sounds like these men are taking advantage of you, you shouldn't be sexually active unless you are ready to be, and it should be with someone who is going to be gentle and a caring partner, and I defintly think at 15 it isn't something you should be considering or doing, but most importantly if your going to be sexually active dont' let anyone force you into it, It's YOUR body and YOUR choice and stay safe.

Please take care Lydia and stay safe.