I see your point. So, how can you keep her from turning it into one more way to control you? How long do you think she will stick with the things that you started first when she copies your activities? Maybe she will move on to something else if it isn't really something she wants to do. Or maybe you will find something else. If it turns out to be something that you both really like, it could be an opportunity to do something together and understand each other. I think it is significant that she has started to follow you since you stopped following her, and I think it can work out to your benefit, especially if you pay attention to what is going on in the relationship and don't give in if she starts trying to use it to control you.
Wendy

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