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Old Mar 10, 2010, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Pain ♥ View Post
OH.My.GOSH what is wrong with people on here ?
Let me tell you Lyida because some people have no idea : S
sex is painfull because you are 15 and your body is to young to have sex with older males who are hurting you.
WHY are people trying to tell you there is something wrong with you. Talk about worrying somebody for no reason.
Lyn P...you should not be telling her ways to have sex :S
OhhMyyGooosh XD
Pain,

Typo put it right. lynn P and I didn't know the age of the poster.

I must say though, I stand by what I said. Lydia needs to work through these issues now & avoid drinking. The problems will still be there when Lydia is 18 and/or 21 years old. Better that the problems be dealt with now, rather than giving them time to become more complicated and hurtful.

Fifteen is too young for sex, but many many adolescents happily jump into bed ~ mostly because that is what they perceive to be expected of them. It wasn't very long ago that I was on that same road. People that refuse to accept young men and women being sexually active are essentially pushing them away. Pushing teens away when they really need support and help is not helpful. I'm not condoning teen sex, but I am not simplifying their sexual experience either. There are still emotions that need to be understood and dealt with appropriately.

Lydia ~ if you're reading this ~ please feel free to PM me if you'd like.
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Thanks for this!
caring_whiterose, Indie'sOK, lynn P., Typo