no, you aren't schzoid. i'm sure you aren't, but i'm not sure that i know how to spell it. HE WANTS TO MAKE YOU THINK YOU'RE CRAZY.

in Oklahoma, a child, past age 12, gets to pick which parent they live with. the judge talks to them, in chambers and that's it. are you sure that there isn't a law that the GAl issn't telling you about? or your lawyer?

my ex has tried to make me think that i'm crazy. heck, he even went to my mother and got her to sign a statement saying he was the better parent. he was very handsome back then. but, in the end, i won and the kids are still glad....

you are not crazy. i've known you too long and we've talked too much...i have a good sense for nuts!