It is actually bad etiquette for them to ask for money - specifically because some may feel uncomfortable. My standard wedding gift is a certificate announcing that I am making a donation in the couple's name to some charity i think they would find appealing. I put it in an envelope and it will seem no different to the other wedding guests.
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“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.” -His Holiness, the Dalai Lama
I will not kneel, not for anyone. I am courageous, strong and full of light. Find someone else to judge, your best won't work here.
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