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Originally Posted by SweetSunshine
Pegasus,
You and I have been members here for a long time. We've seen alot go on around here too. And I know who you are talking about in this thread. This person did not leave on a rash decision at all. This person was Extremely hurt by others. I can understand their reason for needing to leave at the time. But it was their compassion for their friends here that made them want to come back. Hoping that they would be welcomed back with open arms. Now had this been either one of us, wouldn't you want to be welcomed back the same way instead of a thread being made about you like this? I'm sorry, I just feel this is backstabbing and I don't understand why this thread hasn't been locked by and admin already. They certainly know this has got to be about one particular member! I know I will probably get in trouble for this. But this is one reason I usualy don't post alot, because it always comes back to haunt you in the end. I guess I try to follow the rule ( most of the time till something upsets me) if you can't say something nice, don't say it at all.) I know if a thread like this was started about me, I'd feel like this place is rejecting me. And Lord only knows I've had enough of that in my life . Why would we want to do that to another person?
Nuff said.
Beth
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Beth, I stated very clearly at the beginning of this thread that it was not about one particular member. Like you, I have been here a very long time and I have seen
several members do this. I am not 'backstabbing' anyone, this thread was started to gain opinions about helping members to stay here and think of the community before leaving/rejoining/leaving. I'm thinking of the community as a whole and for people to think before they act.
Peace!