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Originally Posted by pegasus
(((((((( purple fins )))))))))  This thread was not meant to make anyone returning feel bad. I was seriously glad to see you come back and I am happy that others have returned but what is so difficult about just taking a break? It means you keep your post count and saves members worrying about you. Can you see what I am saying? |
Peg,
I don't know about you, but I know that sometimes when we are in distress, we don't always think clearly about what we need to do for everyone else. We feel hurt and in a cesspool of our own pain. And not always do we remember what we've once done before in the past and remember not to do it again. Sometimes we just know that we need to protect ourselves from pain, hurt etc. I'm sure we've all felt like this at one time or another. Why be penalized for it? It only adds more pain to it all in the end? And I know myself, I wouldn't care about my post count... if I was deeply hurting. I don't believe anyone intentionally tries to hurt people by leaving either. But this is just my opinion.