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When dealing with anger alters in the past the fallowing things in the end have been true in one way or the other.
*Number 1 reason they think that they are protecting you or themselfs from the pain of remembering.
*More time then not some are the protectors of the body. With the past set of memiors of being abuse by other women. we find that we have those that would rather face death then to accept this fact. We are slowly getting them to understand that the shame belong to those women that took from us that was not theirs to take.
* we also had alters that deleberatly hurt the body to prevent outsiders from hurting us more for not doing what the outside controlers wanted the body to do. To these alters by getting the insiders to do what the outside contolers wanted us to do then they were prevent us from being punised more surverly.
*The key to them was to get them to understand that the body was safe and that with the memiors come the pain. But once dealt with the server emotional and body pains could and would fade with time.
*We had an anger journal in this one we onnly allowed those that need to exspress their feeling safely with out hurting others. it took time but when they found out that they could write and not be punished the weight they carried lessened in time. The ones that carried this burden are no longer alone but are now being intergrated into the larger groups. Good Luck.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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