I don't know if this is something that anyone else deals with, or if it's something unrelated, or whatever, but...

I find that almost 90% of the time, if I'm on the edge of sleep or trying to sleep, my girlfriend will put a comforting arm around me, caress my shoulder, something sweet like that -- and these actions send me into a blind rage. Like, the don't-effing-touch-me kind. Obviously, this is NOT a good thing and I am NOT happy with this response, and I hate that she moves away from me or rolls over afterwards.

Has anyone else experienced this, and what was your solution (if any?). It's annoying and I want it to stop.

Also, side note, I am well. Classes suck, but my claim is at the rating board.