Even tho I am a "complaining" mother it does not mean I do not love my son. I would not love him more if he was working.. I love him as my son.. Whatever he does. It just means I do not always approve of the way he does things or some of the things he does or does not do........His does not need my approval to do whatever he does.. What I am trying to say is that he is not expected to live his life as I want him to. I think I explained that ok....

It is not for me or his father. It is for HIM and only him. I don't really know if he is content living the life style he is living. I know it is the "easy" way..And maybe it just kept being tooooooo easy....I would just like to see him be more responsible...He isn't a kid anymore...

Anyway no matter what, a slob, or a neat freak, I will always love him the same.... He doesn't have to earn my love.. It really is unconditional... Mothers have that for their children.... They don't always have to be approving of what their sons do, but it never means they aren't loved........... or loved less because they aren't going down the right path of life.........